Wednesday, March 28, 2012

On the edge of Apple

Well, the time has come. I am in desperate need of a new cell phone.
Blackberry Curve 8530
This is my current phone. I have loved every Blackberry I have ever owned since I started buying them in 2009. I have upgraded twice in the last three years. You can always hear me tell everyone, proudly, "I love my Blackberry." So it was only natural for me to start looking into a newer model. I love its' small compacted shape, I love my keypad, I LOVE my Blackberry Messenger! "Crackberry" is an understatement. My current phone has taken quite a beating this time around - not really sure why - so it really is an urgency to get a new phone.

IPhone 4S

According to my husband, (and my friend Kassie), I need to get with the times. LOL! Kassie says it is time to move on. All I ever here from Erick is how much he loves his new phone. Of course, everyone knows what this is, the IPhone. He recently purchased one a couple of months ago and is completely enamored of it. He is always bragging about all the things it can do, what it comes with, and how I would greatly benefit from it. His favorite phrase, "Well, if you had an IPhone..." :) Kassie says, "It will change my life."

So needless-to-say, I have definitely been looking into the idea and thinking it over. I have been hearing mostly good statements about this phone, yet I am still not sure if I am ready to part with my Blackberry. I have never been crazy about touch screens though...

Yet with upcoming changes, one thing I am certain of, my Blackberry will not work at all in Japan. Which is another reason Erick has been talking to me about the IPhone. His IPhone works perfectly in Japan, there is no disturbance what so ever and it is because of certain apps he has on the phone. I want to be able to stay in touch with everyone, so the logical choice would be to move on to the IPhone.

I'm going this weekend to look at phones....looks like I may be joining the Apple Clan soon enough, we shall see.

Friday, March 23, 2012

When in Vegas...

Bally's Hotel & Casino
Paris - Las Vegas
    
 I just got back from a great three day trip to Vegas. My sister, Leslie joined me and we had  the best time! Our flight arrived late on Friday
 night so we didn't do very much except check in - we stayed at Bally's on the strip. We are on
 the 17th floor of the south tower. Our suite was  wonderful and we had a gorgeous view of the  Eiffel Tower Restaurant and the Bellagio. They only had a king size bed so we decided to add a  roll-away bed for a little extra comfort. There were his & her closets and sinks, (in our case it was hers & hers), a large tub in the center of the bathing area, a glass shower, a separate toilet, and even included a bidet. Everything about this hotel was absolutely beautiful - as are all the other hotels on the strip. The staff was super courteous and helpful. They had great shops, restaurants, bars, and clubs all under the same roof. :) It really was an awesome experience.

Small section of the strip

We learned our lesson the hard way on Saturday. We walked about three and a half miles down the strip without even realizing it. Our feet were throbbing by late afternoon when we returned. Even after soaking our feet, there was not much improvement. Needless to say, we spent more money on cab fare the next two days. :)
Saturday morning was spent with breakfast at the Hard Rock Cafe. Neither of us had ever stepped foot in one before - the memorabilia is extraordinary! The food not so much. I ordered coffee and Eggs Benedict - my favorite. Coffee was good but my poached eggs were over-cooked and hardly contained any hollandaise sauce. As my second meal in Vegas, I was O for 2. (We had some nachos the night before at a different restaurant that were unsatisfying as well.) In total, my meals counted 3 for 5. :)


My sister and I
5lb Gummy Bear
We walked down the strip towards Mandalay Bay, we wanted to see the Shark Reef. Also a very cool attraction. I would definitely want to bring C.J. to see this. There was plenty of exotic sea life. I am glad we made this one of our stops. We continued back down the strip and stopped at the mall in Planet Hollywood. We stopped at quite a few shops including the Sugar Factory which I absolutely adore! They had so many yummy treats I didn't know where to begin. It was all cupcakes, and cookies, and candies!...Oh my! Most certainly a child's dream come true. We made a few more purchases at different stores and had lunch at the mall before heading back to our hotel to get ready for the evening.

The main reason for our trip was for a friend/cousins wedding. I've known Yvette and her family since I was about 15 years old. It is funny, I knew her before I knew Erick and before I found out that Yvette and Erick are cousins! It was a wonderful surprise to learn that a few years ago. I was so excited and so happy to be there and didn't care that we were standing outside, in a dress and heels, in 40 degree weather. hahaha (It was only for a short while, waiting for the bride to arrive.)

After party.
Juan & Yvette 3-17-2012
Prima hermosa!
She looked absolutely gorgeous and they both looked super happy as they stood in front of the minister sharing their vows. They were married in a little place to the south of the strip called Chapel of the Flowers. The ceremony was short and sweet but the minister had some really beautiful words to say. I couldn't help but tear up in my joy for them. I wish them all the happiness in the world! The dinner followed at the Monte Carlo were we all met up (about 25 of us all together.) It was an amazing buffet! Really top quality food, desserts, and drinks. The end of our night was spent at The Gossy Room at Caesars Palace where we had drinks, did some dancing, and of course conversed about the days' events. It was a great day!


Sunday was spent at the Luxor Hotel where we took a few photos and got to walk through the Titanic and Bodies Exhibitions. The hotel is probably one of the most unique to view, in my opinion anyway. It is shaped like a pyramid and as the Sphinx.

We were not allowed to take any photos at all through either exhibit. We saw some really amazing things. As we entered the Titanic Exhibition, we were each handed a boarding pass, a copy of an original, it contained the name and other information about the passenger. We would use this card at the end of the tour to see if we survived or perished in the accident.
The only photo I could take
The entire tour was absolutely breathtaking, intense, and just sad. There were moments during the tour that I could actually feel my eyes well-up. A lot of what I read and saw really made my heart ache. It really was a lot to take in, in that hour. Like I said, there really were some amazing artifacts. They had tools, ship decor, kitchen utensils, actual bills, passenger belongings - including clothing, jewelry, and personal grooming, even cups, dishes, and plates with the White Star logo. It is astounding what they have brought up from the bottom of the ocean. They had photos and stories of passengers and crew on board. The design to the exhibit is remarkable. They have made certain sections to actually look like the ship including, 3rd class rooms, 1st class rooms, and the C deck. The one part of the tour that did get to me the most was the C-Deck area. You step out through a swinging door and step onto the actual deck (or what is made to be believed as the deck). You saw a dark, starry night. It is meant for the guest to view the deck as it was seen the night the iceberg was hit. It is chilling. When you walk through the next swinging door to the other side of the deck you step into the aftermath. There is an actual iceberg available for all tourists to touch. At the end of the tour they have a huge piece of the Titanic for viewing. "The Big Piece" as it is referred to is about 25ft tall and weighs about 20 tons. It was raised in August of 1998. It is absolutely enormous as you stand next to it, but as it pertains to the actual ship is only a tiny section of four portholes. I can't even begin to comprehend the magnitude of this ship. In the last section there is a display with names of 1st Class passengers, 2nd Class passengers, 3rd Class passengers, and Crew. The top sections show passengers and crew that survived; the bottom half showed those lives that were lost. The most survivors were in 1st Class and 2nd Class. My passenger was in 3rd Class and sadly met her demise on the ship.
The Bodies Exhibition was very educational and fascinating to walk through. I've seen a lot of what they show in my medical books, but it was still nice to see these things up close and personal. The preservation of the bodies is astounding.  The different sections include close ups of muscles, cartilage, bones, arteries, veins, skin, and reproductive organs. An entire section is dedicated to the growing fetus as well. At the end of the tour you can register to have your body donated in the name of science.
with Kassie
That night, we met my dear old friend, Kassie at the Treasure Island Hotel for dinner. I had not seen her in many years, since I lived in San Antonio (2001). She has been living in Las Vegas for the last 6 years. She really enjoys it and has been happy since her move there. She is a career advisor at Kaplan. She is doing wonderfully. It was so great to see her and catch up.
After dinner, Leslie and I walked to the theater for our evening show of Mystère from Cirque du Soleil. This was my second show and my sister's first. It is a magnificent experience! I encourage everyone, whether in Vegas or not, to try and catch one of their amazing acts. You will not regret it! :)

a section of The Conservatory
After the show I crossed over to the Bellagio just to view their conservatory and botanical gardens - absolutely beautiful! I have never seen anything like this.
I know that a lot of people go to gamble but to be honest, I think I spent about $13 in total. I played the slots mostly on Monday, our last day there. I won $3 - LOL!
my LiL Sis <3
I have to admit, Vegas can be a little overwhelming. There was so many people and so many sights, it is all a little difficult to take in in just a few days. But those 3 days were more than enough...hahaha. I really enjoyed my mini-vacation, I know I most definitely needed it, but I could not wait to get home to my LiL Man. This was my first time away from him overnight, it did prove to be a little heart aching at times. I pulled myself together either way and enjoyed my time away.
I am so glad I was able to take this trip with my sister, Leslie. It really was an enjoyable and bonding experience for us. I would really like to do this again but have our husbands come along as well. I am sure they would both have a great time as well. Maybe we can look up flights and hotel deals for Erick's 30th ;)

Wednesday, March 7, 2012

SAYONARA!!!!

So BIG news : C.J. and I are moving to Japan to join Erick! Our flight is scheduled for departure on April 12. We will be flying from Brownsville, to Houston, to Tokyo and finally to Nagoya. We have a very long trip ahead of us but we are super excited!!
Since most of our belongings are still in South Carolina, the few posessions we have aquired here will be placed in a small storage as well. I will drive our car to Brownsville so our family can take care of it for us while we are gone and of course use it themselves if need to.
As of right now our Visas are currently being processed. So as long as they return before April 12 then that is our move date. If not, then we will just have to reschedule our flights. Our plans are to stay until the end of the year. I am a little nervous but at the same time super excited to be with my husband again. We have really missed him. I am so happy we get to be a complete family again.
We will have an apartment on the 12th floor in the Higashi Ward of Nagoya. There is a Starbucks across the street and a grocery store just around the corner, (the two things I need the most). My hubby has already checked the neighborhood out even though he doesn't move in until the 26th of this month. He is happy it will give him a couple weeks to get the place settled and ready for us.
There is much packing and storing and sorting to do but I have started now to get a head start on everything.
Looks like I need to put my Italian on hold for now and pick up Japanese. ;)

Wednesday, February 22, 2012

Cuaresma

Today is Ash Wednesday and therefore the first day of Lent (Cuaresma). We have 40 days and 40 nights ahead of us for prayer, repentance, and penance. I have fasting to do today plus no meat and then no meat on Fridays until Easter. C.J. and I attended the 12:10 pm Liturgy at our church to receive the ashes. Now, most people usually give up a certain luxury for Lent - sweets, alcohol, cursing, bread, sex, even social media - whatever most can think of that will be somewhat difficult to endure. Although I am going to watch what I say as far as cursing goes, (I know I can have a "sailor's mouth" on me when I get going), I've decided to go a little different this year.

I am going to change a few things about myself, what I do for C.J. and our daily routine. Things have really changed for us since moving back to Texas and with Erick being gone and with us not being in a place we call "home." I've noticed a change in me, it is not necessarily bad, but I know I can do better. I just want to be a better Mother to C.J.

I actually started a few weeks ago:
C.J. now has a bedtime of 9pm. He is no longer napping during the day so this has been pretty simple to achieve. At 8:30pm he brushes his teeth, goes potty, and changes into his pj's. He is in bed by 9pm and usually out within 10 minutes.
We now wake up at least by 9am. Since Erick  had returned to Japan, we've been sleeping in 'til about 10:30 or 11:00am - this just seems too late for me. So from now we wake up at 9am, I have coffee and he has breakfast.
Our schedule continues as follows:

C.J. will watch his Leap Frog Numberland DVD, then he will watch his Your Baby Can Read DVD - he is not allowed to play with toys during this time so he can pay attention. We go over ABC's - I point to his refrigerator letters and we sing them aloud. We go over numbers (1 - 20) in English and Spanish, same as ABC's, I point and we recite them.


We also go over ABC's in Sign Language and a few words everyday. Lastly, we practice writing his name on a sheet of paper. I have started with just "C.J." for now but once he shows more improvement we will move on to his full name - Cristián. I am actually really proud that he has picked up his initials quite rapidly. He is doing very well.

All the things we do are not new to him, he's known all this for a while now, I just don't want him to forget these things. I know that this knowledge and education can only benefit him later.
Since his grandparents' Christmas gift of a Nintendo DS, all he wants to do is play it. I am no longer allowing this. He is limited to 2 hours per day of play on the Nintendo DS.
All this is done throughout the day. I do not do everything back-to-back, I don't want to overwhelm him. This helps the day go by a little faster and we enjoy ourselves too. He still watches his favorite shows on Disney and Nick Jr. and he plays with his toys throughout the day. We still play Candy Land, the Memory Game, Play-Doh, we do puzzles, color and paint. He also has some very fun and educational toys that I prefer he play with also so we practice reading, writing, and spelling.

I have also limited the use of my laptop, Twitter, and Facebook accounts. I get emails and alerts to my Blackberry so there really is no reason for me to constantly be in front of the computer. I keep myself busy with C.J. and with daily household duties and at 5pm I have my workout time - everyday. I am now playing softball on Sundays so that is another form of "me" time and exercise I get.
And C.J. loves it because he gets to play in the park. (My friend Maria watches him as I play so she is a big help.)

I don't want to think that I am being strict, because that is not the case, but I also don't want to be labeled as a lazy Mother either. I didn't grow up with the attention from my parents that I would have liked and I don't want to smother him either, but I want him to know and trust that I will always support him and help him in any and every way possible.
I just want to do better for him....

Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Is it just me...?

Why do I feel with certain family members or friends that I am always going out of my way to be considerate to them and they always let me down when I need them.
With certain friends, I feel like I am the better friend to them than they are to me. I always find myself having to send the first text or make the first phone call. Even send a card...Friendship is about sharing;  Sharing opinions, dreams, fears, hopes... It is meant to engage conversations. We are supposed to cherish our memories but of course make new ones along the way. We should have a mutual understanding of how much love we have for one another and how much we care.
"Friendships don't magically last 40 years...you have to invest in them."  (S&TC, S5E3)
Then when it comes to some family members, I literally have no words at times. It's like, do they not hear the words that come out of their mouths?? We should respect each other and share joys. We shouldn't hope for love and support, it should already be there. Above anyone else, family should be number one. Actions do speak louder than words, yet when we do not think about what we are saying, those words can cut deeper than a global chef knife. That's how it's been with me, my family always comes first. I have some friends I consider family so they follow a super-close second.
"Family means putting your arms around each other and being there." (Barbara Bush)
I am trying to live my life well. I am trying to teach my child to be a good, caring person. But then there's instances that occur where sometimes I just think, "Why bother?"

Thursday, February 16, 2012

Anything Like Me...

I could listen to this song over and over. :) This is definitely our song to C.J. <3

¶ I remember sayin' I don't care either way
Just as long as he or she is healthy, I'm okay
And then the doctor pointed to the corner of the screen
And said, "You see that thing right there? Well, you know what that means"♫


♪ I started wondering who he was going to be
And I thought heaven help us if he's anything like me ♪

♪ He'll probably climb a tree too tall and ride his bike too fast
End up every summer wearin' something in a cast
He's gonna throw a ball and break some glass
In a window down the street ♪

♫ He's gonna get in trouble, oh, he's gonna get in fights
I'm gonna lose my temper and some sleep
It's safe to say that I'm gonna get my payback
If he's anything like me ♫

♪ I can see him right now, knees all skinned up
With a magnifying glass tryin' to melt a Tonka truck
Won't he be a sight with his football helmet on?
That'll be his first love 'til his first love comes along ♪

♪ He'll get his heart broke by the time he's in his teens
And heaven help him if he's anything like me ♪

♪ He'll probably stay out too late and drive his car too fast
Get a speeding ticket, he'll pay for mowing grass
He's gonna get caught skippin' class
And be grounded for a week ♪

♫ He's gonna get into trouble, we're gonna get in fights
I'm gonna lose my temper and some sleep
It's safe to say that I'm gonna get my payback
If he's anything like me ♫

♪ He's gonna love me
And hate me along the way
The years are gonna fly by
And I already dread the day ♪

♪ He's gonna hug his mama, he's gonna shake my hand
He's gonna act like he can't wait to leave ♪

♪  But as he drives out he'll cry his eyes out
If he's anything like me
There's worst folks to be like, oh, he'll be alright
If he's anything like me ¶

Sunday, February 5, 2012

Tía to the 10th Power

Baby Mendoza
My new nephew, Yandel Pedro Mendoza made his much anticipated appearance on February 2, 2012 at 6:22 am. He weighed 8lbs. 5oz. and was 21 inches in length. We are all so excited for the new family! This little bundle is another wonderful addition to the Mendoza family. Our new little prince, (3rd officially) 4th unofficially. He is absolutely gorgeous and I cannot wait to hold him! I am so happy for my brother-in-law, Pete and my sister-in-law, Holly. Truly another wonderful blessing!